Christian Educators' Journal

He gave us himself

by David Lillvis

As parents of young children, we felt caught between the desire to limit Christmas gift-giving on the one hand, and the desire to recognize and accept generosity on the other.  Grandparents, who had lived through hard times while growing up, expressed love by showering gifts on our two sons.  We wanted our boys to learn gratitude, but also wanted them to learn the difference between the upward mobility of America and the downward mobility of Bethlehem.  And we wanted them to learn gratitude for the gifts and works of God.

We created a small tradition aimed at tempering the consumerist quality of the annual Christmas gift exchange by at least attempting to place it in a broader context.  Before opening gifts, we read this quotation from the Norwegian author, Sigrid Undset:

And when we give each other Christmas gifts in his name, let us remember that he has given us the sun and the moon and the stars, and the earth with its forests and mountains and oceans — and all that lives and moves upon them.  He has given us all green things and everything that blossoms and bears fruit — and all that we quarrel about and all that we have misused — and to save us from our own foolishness, from all our sins, he came down to earth and gave us himself.

your comments

ByronBorger
Dec 24 2011
06:17 AM

This is just such a little thing, but I’ve heard that many families, when giving gifts to each other on Christmas morn (or whenever) each take a turn opening a gift. What did you get? Look what I got? Etc. We decided to go around the room and each person takes a turn giving their gift to whomever they chose. The focus is subtle, but it is on the giving as much as the getting.

Does anyone else do it that way?